“Every instance of new lights appearing is preceded by tzimtzum”
Etz Chayim 8:2
INTRO
The first step of self creation for many trans folks is certainly not something perceivable by other people. In fact, the first step of trans self-creation sometimes isn’t even perceivable to the person experiencing it. These first steps are often as seemingly insignificant as creating that small still space within ourselves. This space doesn’t whisper “I think I’m trans” or “I was assigned the wrong gender.” This space simply allows for the possibility of questioning. It may be brought on by something as simple as reading an article about a trans person. It may be as intimate as having a trans lover or partner. It may be as profound as a life long sense you don’t “belong.” It may be apropos of nothing. But there it is. A space. A small dot of possibility. A pintele trans. (1)
I was not one of those people you hear about where I always knew I was trans. There are stories of child-me crying at being forced to wear dresses. There are also stories of child-me refusing to go somewhere unless I got to try out make up. While I was not a girly girl, I didn’t think of myself as a boy either. Even during my uncomfortable teenage years, awkward with my body, and consumed with pre-emptive prudishness, I still didn’t think I was a boy. But at some point I started to consider exactly what made me so different. And while it was months before I figured out even the slightest beginnings of my identity, the allowance of what I might be and who I might become made my current life possible.
TZIMTZUM – Contraction
If g-d is omnipresent, how is there space for the world?
Yes, I recognize it sounds similar to the classically ridiculed question “Can g-d make a rock so big even g-d can’t lift it?” Still, to some (2), it’s a valid rabbinic train of thought. If g-d really is everywhere and if g-d has some form of physicality – which many rabbis and the Torah clearly thought Ze did (3) – then how does the world exist? Outside of g-d? Within g-d? Some kind of strange unexpected time/space continuum equation worthy of a Star Trek techno-babble sequence? D- All of the above?
The Kabbalists answered this question with the idea of tzimtzum (צמצום). Tzimtzum means contraction or withdrawal. The Lurianic creation myth states that g-d began the process of creation by contracting, by creating a space within Their self, a hollow for this world to exist. G-d takes Their divine infinite light, the Or Ein Sof (אור אין סוף) which pervades everything, and allows the infinite light to become finite. Creating this chalal hapanoi (חלל הפנוי), this empty space, is what allows us to exist in what was previously filled with infinite homogeneous divinity.
This myth seems remarkably different from what we usually think of as the Jewish creation story. The story told at the beginning of Genesis/Bereshit is a tale outlining order from chaos, an account of clear physicality, whereas this kabbalistic tale is lacking in human scale and tangible formation. It seems odd to imagine these two creation tales coming from the same tradition. However, the rabbis connect both stories, insisting on both/and rather than an either/or because that’s what rabbis and Judaism often do (4). But even with the connections the rabbis make, it still seems odd to those of us raised with Genesis/Bereshit as the authoritative Jewish creation story.
INTERNAL VERSUS EXTERNAL
The traditional Jewish story of Creation is an external story. G-d says things and they happen. G-d exerts His (5) power of creation through words and onto the world. When g-d says “יְהִי אוֹר” (Let there be light), why then וַיְהִי-אוֹר (and there was light). When g-d orders the waters to divide, they comply. When g-d calls for grass and seeds and trees, the earth responds by breaking forth into greenery. But the Kabbalistic creation story changes this. No longer is g-d’s first act of creation an external one; it is internal. In this story, the first required act for creation is self-change.
Many people and therefore many stories, attach creation to physical action – by which they usually mean an action others can perceive. Even those who do not attach creation to a traditionally physical act still connect it to the thought of creation, the thought of the action that will be performed. The main storyline of Bereshit – the formation of landscape and animals and Adam – happens seemingly disconnected from the kabbalistic creation myths. And it is that story that is full of spoken words and physicality. The kabbalistic act of creation however seems at least one step before that, before even the thought.
According to Aryeh Kaplan’s notes to Sefer haYetzirah “This constriction of hollowing of the Divine Essence did not occur in physical space, but rather, in conceptual space” (6). And so the rabbis say that the tzimtzum wasn’t to be misconstrued as a physically noticeable action. I too see the tzimtzum as something internal; not just in the sense that if g-d is everywhere then this must literally be internal to g-d, but also not in a mental/internal versus physical/external sense (7). When I read about tzimtzum, what I see is g-d making a space available for the consideration of the world, creating what allows the possibility of the thought rather than the actual thought itself. Aryeh Kaplan’s notes in Sefer haYetzirah also seem to point towards this conclusion, “The Kabbalists therefore teach that before creating anything else, g-d created the concept of ‘Cause’ (8)” Not the thought. Not the action. Not even the cause, but the concept of it.
REVELATION THROUGH CONCEALMENT
In much the same way that creation is often seen as an external “physical” act, creation is also seen as a revelation – the act of revealing a newness. While the creation in Torah is not exactly creatio ex nihilo (9) – for example the spirit of g-d hovers over the already present water (10) – it is a revelation of order from chaos. And yet in the Lurianic myths, tzimtzum is an act of concealment, not revelation. To allow the space/time necessary for our creation, g-d makes a point from which the infinite divine light is concealed. (11) In creating the world (olam – עולם), g-d creates a concealment (helem – העלם).
One of the most traditionally feminine moments I consciously had as an adult was in my late teens. While I hadn’t yet realized I was trans, much less come out as such, I was beginning to have inklings that something wasn’t working for me. And so I tried even harder to conceal my nature by going full on femme to a dance. I had a dress. I had flowers. I had long hair done in some fancy updo. I had the makeup I dreaded. I was creating a persona for myself, concealing myself as I knew my self at that time, and – in that concealment – was hiding the burgeoning possibilities of being trans. I hear a similar story from trans friends and trans acquaintances all the time; this story of concealing yourself – to the world and to even to yourself – at the very cusp of realization. And I often hear the corollary that soon after throwing themselves into their assigned gender, they finally had to call it quits, to recognize another path was needed. Perhaps it is the very act of that concerted, often painful, final effort that propels us into true openness (12).
There is, due to society’s misunderstanding and even hatred, an often automatic move towards concealment when it comes to trans issues. Cis (13) society prefers that genders outside of their expectations both reinforce the narrative they expect (‘I mean, I know you’re trans but why can’t you at least try to look normal!?’) and remain hidden (‘Why are you always talking about being trans so much?’). Trans people are compelled in a variety of ways to mask and veil our trans status. This spoken and unspoken coercion to keep gender variant people silent and invisible is what reinforces the very denial/concealment of ourselves. And, as tzimtzum is the beginning step of creation, it is often at the edge of realization that we try the hardest to hide. While the concealment of ourselves is painful and usually negative, it can often be the impetus to creating that necessary space, that tzimtzum of possibility.
In B’reshit Rabbah there is a midrash (14) that the angels did not want g-d to make humans:
Rabbi Simon said: When the Holy One, blessed be [They], came to create people, the ministering angels were divided into camps and factions. Some said, “Let g-d create humans;” others said, “Let g-d not create humans.” This corresponds to the verse: “Kindness and truth met; justice and peace came together” (Tehillim 85:11): Kindness said: “Let g-d create humans, for they will perform acts of kindness.” Truth said, “Let g-d not create humans, for they will be full of deceit.” Justice said, “Let g-d create humans, for they will perform righteousness;” peace said, “Let g-d not create them, for they will be full of divisiveness….” (15)
And while the angels are arguing about the pros and cons of this decision, arguing our future out of existence, g-d just slips out back and makes people in all our complex beauty. Sometimes we do the same, creating our new selfs even as we logically argue against change or, unawares, focus on other life issues. Sometimes we are both g-d and the angels.
Even in the traditional Jewish story of the beginning, there are aspects of the power and pain located in separation and creation. On the second day g-d separates the waters, parting them into the waters above and the waters below. This second day is also the only day never labelled as “good.” But on the third day; when g-d makes something of the separation, when g-d turns the waters into sky and sea and creates land, when something comes from the pain; then that day is doubly blessed.
G-d in these stories seems far more compassionate than the angels, far more willing to give humanity a chance to exist, despite knowing we will screw up and hurt each other. Sometimes I envision a g-d who is more compassionate simply because Ey knew the suffering of separation, because They felt Their Selfs pull away during the tzimtzum, felt the withdrawal from that previous completeness, while the angels in their unchanging perfection can never know that pain. Did it hurt g-d to create that space? Was it painful to limit Themself, to see the disconnected emptiness that used to be Them? Or did that space create joy? Was there happiness in knowing what that change would lead to? Is this what makes a compassionate g-d? The ability to know that all too human intertwining sense of loss and possibility, grief and hope?
CONCEALMENT FROM SELF
The concealment many trans people face seems – of course – markedly different from the concealment of tzimtzum. I mean, comparing an infinitely divine unknowable with what a human encounters seems almost … sacrilegious. Perhaps even heretical? And yet the Kabbalists continuously insisted that what they wrote of the heavens was mirrored in humans. In the words of Dov Baer, the Maggid of Mezritch (16), “I teach everyone that all the things described in the book Ets Hayim (17) pertain also to this world and to the human being.”
While the literal event of the tzimtzum is clearly not in hiding due to societal concerns (it’s difficult to hide from society when matter doesn’t even exist yet), it is a restriction nonetheless. It is through this concealment – as opposed to the order of traditional Torah reading – that the world is created. It is only through the tzimtzum’s state of potential that the world is eventually revealed. Trans people and ultimately all people need the physical, mental, and spiritual space to create themselves anew. Tzimtzum speaks to this. It allows us to recognize that when we withdraw, it is sometimes a necessary step for our lives and our well being, for our preservation and our self-creation.
Another form of concealment the Kabbalah often talks about is the sephirot (18) as a type of clothing for the divine. The concept of enclothment (hitlabshut – התלבשות) is the concept of how the divine light shifts into finite form. Just as tzimtzum creates finite space from infinite space, it also entails forming finite light from otherwise infinite light. Compare it perhaps to the light shifting through a prism. Everything is white light until it is refracted, then it becomes enclothed in different spectra, different vessels of wavelength. Moses Cordovero in his work Pardes Rimmonim (Garden of Pomegranates) compares it to water flowing through colored vessels. The water is still water, but is tinted and shaped by the container. So too is the concealment of the divine light tinged by the vessel it is clothed in. “By clothing itself in the sephirot, Ein Sof (19) conceals itself, yet this concealment is simultaneously an unfolding manifestation of Ein Sof” (20).
And it is through clothing many of us conceal ourselves, discover ourselves, reveal ourselves anew to the world. We hide our hips in baggy pants. We secretly, in the safety of our room, slip on a dress. We bind. We tuck. We pack. And we go forth. Through our garments, we tell our story. Through clothing we may conceal certain parts, but reveal even more by trying to show the world the narrative of our gender, of our lives.
INFINITE TO FINITE
But how does an infinite omnipresent being that fills the entire universe, that is even beyond the universe, fit Itself into clothing? How does an almighty divinity separate from Itself and squeeze a part of infinity into finite time and space?! Because, in this myth, that’s what g-d is doing. In concealing the light and creating an empty space, g-d changes the principles of the universe. G-d limits infinity.
One of Issac Luria’s great contributions to Kabbalah would seem small to many. It has to do with the nature of tzimtzum and how the infinite becomes finite. The Kabbalists are very interested in how g-d can constrict. While earlier Kabbalists created a series of small tzimtzum, full of gradual incremental moves towards finite-ness, Luria viewed this as the Kabbalistic equivalent of Zeno’s arrow (21). It never quite got there. And so Luria proposed a dilug, a jump from infinite to finite, a radical act of divine will that brought the finite into the universe. This quantum leap (22) is what makes everything possible. Without this the universe does not exist.
As we trans people move from the small space of possibility to the finite realization of being trans, we make a radical leap from allowance to possibility, from possibility to probability. Tzimtzum starts by creating the space within ourselves, a space of potential. As a ray of light (kav – קו) begins to pierce through the vacuum, we begin to consider the possibilities. The empty space is no longer empty, but becoming filled with the light of our trans selves. We begin clothing – enrobing – these possibilities, giving them space in our heads, allowing them room to grow, allowing them space to root.
Trans people, through allowing this space to consider their own trans-ness, often must consider carefully what kind of gender and what gender presentation they have. Most cis people assume their gender to be innate and “natural.” Trans people though – even those who firmly know their inherent personal gender – still must constantly grapple with what their gender means and how to present that gender in a society that will judge them harshly. We must take the comparatively infinite possibilities – especially compared to traditionally acceptable Western cis genders – and coalesce them into a finite presentation. For trans people and others who transgress against the societal standards of gender, it is rarely a simple question such as “A’int I a woman?” but instead a myriad of considerations. “What kind of woman am I?” “Do I like dresses?” “Do I even fit into the binary?” “If I don’t fit the binary, what am I?” “What about makeup? “Do I feel comfortable wearing a tie and vest?” “I prefer ze/hir pronouns, but would I be comfortable with “they” in more complicated public situations?” “Where are the places I can dress how I want?” “Does this mean I’m gay now!?” And all these internal questions multiply further with each new social interaction and each new intersection (23) to be measured and judged and questioned.
We take the seemingly infinite and morph it into the finite gender of the time and space we occupy (24). But we know there are more possibilities. We are aware of the spaces we’ve created to find our full selves. We comprehend all too well the choices we made in this dark world and the small points of light each of our lives create.
And now there is a small space amongst the infinite, a vacuum waiting to be filled, a place of possibility. Divine light – the filtered Or Ein Sof, the Light of Everything/Nothingness – begins pouring into the vacuum. A quantum leap from infinite to finite. From nothing to something. A spark to pierce the dark (25). Like a prism splitting the spectrum, the light begins to separate, to coalesce.
“Rabbi Shimon got up and said, “Grandfather, grandfather, … the clothing that one wears in the morning is not the clothing that is worn at night, and the clothing of one day is not worn the day after.”
Tikkunei HaZohar, Tikkun 12
References:
1. A “pintele trans” is my playful take on pintele yid, a yiddish phrase. There is a tradition that every Jew has some indestructible point of Jewishness within them. My rabbi Valerie Cohen, the Jacksoner rebbe, often used the pintele yid and the idea of the Jewish neshamah – a Jewish soul – to welcome converts. Rabbi Noach Dzmura writes about the pintele yid being a “flamer” in Torah Queeries (p. 129-134). I feel the same applies for trans people. There is some small shining point of trans-ness, whether you knew as long as you can remember or only realized when you were 50. There’s still that internal shimmering spark, that indestructible point.
2. To others, most famously the author of the Tanya – the Alter Rebbe, Rabbi Shneur Zalman – the thought of there being any space without g-d is a patent falsehood and simply a limit of human perception.
3. “A cloud covered the tent of meeting, and the presence of g-d filled the Tabernacle, and Moses was not able to enter into the tent of meeting” (Exodus 40:34-35). This is a proof text used by some rabbis to explain that g-d has some physicality that takes up a presence of space.
4. Talmud – in many ways The Text of rabbinic Judaism – is mostly rabbis arguing and disagreeing, but there are sometimes no official answers. While there may be multiple answers, the arguments often just continue on or switch gears. And even when there is an official answer, the other not-so-official answers are still there, enshrined in Talmud for as long as there is Talmud.
5. I did say I don’t ascribe he, him, his pronouns to g-d. However, the g-d in the Hebrew of the Torah is a masculine g-d with masculine pronouns and He (all to often) often comes with all the crap that being a man carries in a patriarchal militaristic society.
6. Aryeh Kaplan Sefer HaYetzirah p. 14. I use Aryeh Kaplan’s translation. See the above note 2 for how amazing Aryeh Kaplan is. Also feel free to, you know, gift me with any Aryeh Kaplan books you’d like because I want them all.
7. I don’t even think the binary mind/body split works well with us flesh and blood folks, but that’s another topic that’s simply too large for this writing and these foot notes (though Daniel Boyarin writes wonderfully about it in Jewish versus Christian lines of theological thought, particularly in Carnal Israel: Reading Sex in Talmudic Culture). Of course, the continuing western notion that the mind and the body are separate, is simply that – a notion. It, as many notions before it and after it, contains its own pros and cons, and its own fallacies. The mind is another part of the body. When neurons fire and thoughts or emotions arise, that is still a physical action of your body. It may not be an action others can perceive, but it is an action nonetheless. And it is through that action – whether thought or emotion or both – that other actions arise.
8. Aryeh Kaplan Sefer HaYetzirah p. 58
9. Creatio ex nihilio – Latin for “Creation from nothing.” Because I have to use my B.A. in Classical Studies and nearly a decade of dead language studies somewhere.
10. וְרוּחַ אֱלֹהִים, מְרַחֶפֶת עַל-פְּנֵי הַמָּיִם. “And the spirit (breath) of g-d hovered above the face of the water.” Genesis/Breshit 1:2 This water is clearly already in existence before g-d begins to create within the story we have. Rashi points this out.
11. Helem and Olam are linguistically connected and various Kabbalists draw attention to this.
12. Now I do not think suffering in hiding is necessary for the trans experience and I do not even like the idea that suffering makes people “better.” I’ve also seen too many people who would be far better served by having housing or never having lost their job, than by the “character” that suffering built. And yet I also recognize that in our suffering, many of us discovered ourselves and increased our compassion for others in different places of hurt and forgotten-ness..
13. Cis and trans are both latinate prefixes. Cis (on this side) is the opposite prefix of trans (across, beyond, through). Therefore a cisgender person is someone who is comfortable with the gender they were assigned at birth and feels no compulsion or want to move away from that gender.
14. A midrash (מדרש) is a story based commentary based on Torah. Midrashim – the plural of midrash – are ultimately an interpretive act drawn from deep textual reading, a way for the rabbis to creatively interpret questions about the text.
15. Translation from Jacob Neusner’s Confronting Creation: How Judaism Reads Genesis: An Anthology of Genesis Rabbah, page 61.
16. Maggid Dov Bear of Metzeritch was a student of and the successor to the Baal Shem Tov. In Daniel Matt’s The Essential Kabbalah.
17. Etz Chayim is a compilation of Rabbi Issac Luria’s teachings by his student Chayim Vital. This work is the primary source text when learning specifically of Lurianic Kabbalah.
18. We will discuss what the sephirot are later. But, for a quick overview, the sephirot are considered emanations and attributes – middot – of g-d.
19. Ein Sof is the infinite, the “no end” of the divine. According to the Kabbalists, this is the completely unknowable unity of g-d from which the sephirot – and all of our perceptions of g-d – emanate.
20. Tiqqunei ha-Zohar, quoted from Daniel Matt’s The Essential Kabbalah p. 172
21. Zeno states that for motion to occur, the arrow must change the space it occupies. Zeno also states that at any given moment the arrow is stationary. If time is composed of moments and at each moment the arrow is stationary, then motion is impossible. If you wish to use this construct in space instead of time, just look up Zeno’s wonderfully paradoxical story of Achilles racing the tortoise.
22. Aren’t we all “putting things right that once went wrong and hoping each time that this next leap will be the leap home.”
23. Intersectionality is a way to discuss the complexity that is the overlapping and independent systems of social categories that affect oppression and privilege. It was coined by Kimberlé Crenshaw to address the exclusion that black women routinely experience. Here’s a quick primer and guide: http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/01/why-our-feminism-must-be-intersectional/
24. This – of course – also applies for people with multiple genders, demi gender, or no gender. While much of this writing revolves around the word gender and around having a single gender, this is simply because I am someone who identifies as gendered. This same formation of ideas and the struggle of moving through, beyond or to differently gendered states is something that readily applies to people who have no gender or multiple genders. Agender and multiple gendered people face much of the same discrimination and the similar internal conflict that monogendered trans people do simply by existing in a society that insists you must be one of two gender options and that you must remain in the gender you were assigned at birth. They also face the added discrimination that comes with not accepting the binary genders, much less the gender standards of the society we live in, as well as the discrimination of people who insist all humans have one single intrinsic gender.
25. “from Battery Park, way up to Washington Heights”